{"id":23906,"date":"2022-06-29T09:28:34","date_gmt":"2022-06-29T09:28:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.guarantee.pl\/?p=23906"},"modified":"2022-06-29T09:41:15","modified_gmt":"2022-06-29T09:41:15","slug":"how-to-have-a-good-hookup-in-college-17","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.guarantee.pl\/pl\/how-to-have-a-good-hookup-in-college-17\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Have a Good Hookup in College"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><title>How to Have a Good Hookup in College<\/title><\/p>\n<p>For many young adults, college is the first place you get a real taste of freedom. You&#8217;re free from reputations formed since childhood, free from parents, free from your tired teenage life. You&#8217;re also surrounded by a lot of attractive, horny people who are simultaneously experiencing freedom for the <a href=\"https:\/\/hookupdate.net\/pl\/muzmatch-recenzja\/\">Muzmatch porady<\/a> first time, and also finally have the bedroom space to enact their desires.<\/p>\n<p>While the last few years have reshaped the way we think about sex and physical intimacy-there is a much greater understanding of consent, and more awareness about the ways communication is misunderstood-that knowledge is unevenly distributed, and many young people really don&#8217;t know what they&#8217;re doing as they stumble toward their first few sexual experiences.<!--more--> We are frustratingly far away from the ultimate goal that we all deserve: physical intimacy that is not only safe but is also good.<\/p>\n<p>Seeking a good hookup experience can feel like navigating an impossible quagmire, especially given toxic campus cultures that pressure students into having sex and can make intimacy feel transactional even when it&#8217;s fully consensual. The lack of clarity around the phrase \u201chookup\u201d is part of the problem-depending on who&#8217;s talking, it can mean everything from a kiss to sexual intercourse. And though a hookup is usually someone that you don&#8217;t have a romantic relationship with, it can be anyone from a stranger to an acquaintance to a \u201cfuck buddy\u201d you have an understanding with. So here is what you need to know to make hookup culture work for you:<\/p>\n<h2>Where to Start<\/h2>\n<p>Knowing how to communicate your needs is an essential first step-both in making sure you are satisfied, but also making sure that your partner(s) are comfortable and consent to everything that you want to do to and with them. It&#8217;s also an important skill to develop as you continue to have sex, regardless of the number of partners you&#8217;ll have throughout your life.<\/p>\n<h2>How to Have a Good Hookup in College<\/h2>\n<p>You should begin with honest introspection about what you want to get out of it, and what you&#8217;re comfortable doing. This process can happen in your head, or it can come in the form of an actual catalogue. Burlesque performer and sex educator Fancy Feast recommends making a \u201cYes and maybe list\u201d to physically commit your comfort level, needs, and wants to paper.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA yes and maybe list is a list of actions in your \u2018playbank,&#8217;\u201d Fancy Feast told me over the phone. \u201cYou can ask yourself, \u2018Is this something I jerk off about, am I really curious about it?&#8217; That would go in your \u2018yes.&#8217; If it&#8217;s something you definitely aren&#8217;t interested in or something you didn&#8217;t enjoy, that would go in your \u2018no.&#8217;\u201d A \u201cyes,\u201d for example, could be a mix of positions or kinks you know you are into, like doggy style, or things you haven&#8217;t tried but definitely want to, like being handcuffed or spanked. And if those are things you&#8217;ve tried and dislike, or actively have no interest in trying, they go in \u201cno.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnything else would go in your \u2018maybe.&#8217; And that could mean maybe on my body but not on someone else&#8217;s body. Maybe if we had immediate access to a shower, or something like that. Anything that comes with a caveat. I think that&#8217;s really useful whether or not you&#8217;re in a relationship, whether or not you&#8217;re hooking up. You could even put it in a Google doc and send it to somebody else!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Formulating this list obviously requires rudimentary knowledge of what you do and don&#8217;t like. Some of this may have come from previous relationships or hookups before college. But not having hooked up with someone doesn&#8217;t mean you don&#8217;t have context for what you may be interested in. 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